Most people generally do things a certain way or react to situations in a given manner, depending on their past experiences, or perhaps because of their zodiac sign. Although not apparent to them or those around them, these factors influence how anyone does anything. Unfortunately, if observed closely, these factors are very notable, and the patterns reveal a lot unless a person intentionally tries to change their tendencies. Therefore, if one is unaware, playing mind games and achieving your desired outcome is possible.
Although people perceive the art of mind games in a bad light, such as manipulation and taking advantage of others, it does not always need to have bad intentions. It can help you as an employee and, in other cases, your business venture. Therefore, never underrate the power of mind games. The six significant ways to play mind games include:
Master Yourself
The first step before you can even become good at playing with the mind of others is mastering your mind, body, and self. You cannot win any mind games without first studying yourself. Unfortunately, this part of the process might take an extended period. However, it will be worth the time invested in the long run. Study your weaknesses and get to know your shortcomings. Such a study will help you avoid situations you are not particularly good at.
On the other hand, master your strengths. With this, you know your automatic wins and where to drive situations when you need a win. Additionally, it is essential to know your biases, likes and dislikes, and stressors. Finally, your traits and patterns are also as important to note, which will be helpful when you are trying to conceal them.
Master the Art of Reading People
The other important step is to be sure to study the one you are trying to play mind games on. As mentioned above, in most cases, people’s actions or responses are based on prior experiences and situations. It either comes from their nature or their nurturing. When it comes to a person’s nature, you can draw this from their zodiac sign or even the temperaments they belong to. The nature of a person helps you to tell their likes and, most importantly, their dispositions.
Additionally, nurturing can be the result of family dynamics; e.g., first born versus last born, middle child, etc. Knowing where someone comes from and what they stand for will give you a deeper look into who they are. For example, it is a belief that most first-born children carry a sense of responsibility. Therefore, when you master all these things about people, you can easily pick up on the fundamental aspects of who they are.
Become Convincing
The secret to playing mind games to anyone is only by them trusting you and believing you are what you portray. Such trust will open them to you and give you access to their lives. Without being convincing, people will keep you at arm’s length, making it harder for you to know them. They will also be aloof; thus, you cannot read them in this stake. Therefore, to be convincing to people, you have to, for starters, perfect your acts. For instance, if you are trying to play mind tricks on a colleague at work, you must never break the character you have picked. Whether they catch you at a low time or not, you have to maintain the personality you portray to them. Additionally, having efficient people skills such as being charismatic and charming are beneficial in convincing others since most times, people feel comfortable around people who make them feel welcome.
Be Caring
This factor works effectively in the art of playing mind games. By showing a caring side, you automatically draw the person you are playing mind games in with less effort. People are drawn to those who generally care about their well-being, which develops into friendship with time. However, when doing this, avoid overindulging. If the person does not want to share, give them the time by being there for them.
Show Vulnerability
Being caring is not enough to draw the person in and trust you completely. Therefore, you must show confidence in your friendship by having a vulnerable side. Opening a sensitive side and showing deep emotions solidifies the assurance that there isn’t a shady side to you. It also tells the other person that the friendship is not one-sided, that this is a two-way street, and that you depend on them.
Put Their Dignity to The Test
Some people do not like accepting defeat or compromising their dignity. Therefore, to win when playing mind games with them, the most effective tool is putting their pride in question. But, unfortunately, as they try to either win or prove their dignity intact, they can end up playing right into your mind game.
Bottom Line
Mind games are healthy between friends and colleagues; they are ways of practicing your people skills and checking on your tell signs and weaknesses. Perfecting it can also help you thrive in business and other areas of life. However, when doing this, remember that someone else might be playing mind games with you, too; the zodiac signs of Scorpio and Pisces are particularly good at it!
